The Missing Person Post, updated

Here is some current information:

Missing Person Case 10-68523
Det. Angela Spezzano
Douglas County Sheriff's Office
4000 Justice Way
Castle Rock, Co 80104
303-663-7259- Office
303-688-4939- Fax
aspezzan@douglas.co.us

Colorado Child Support Enforcement Case 18-907822-44-1A
Case Manager: Helen Yavich, 
4000 Justice Way Suite 3538, 
Castlerock CO 80109-7570, 
(303) 814-7147, 
Fax (303) 814-7014.

You can also see Theo's profiles, picture and related information at: LinkedIn Public Profile, Web Development with Apache and Perl, and Good Reads. He was driving a white '94 Saturn station wagon with Colorado plates ?683 GBL?.  The car was abandoned in Minneapolis where Theo has a bit of college history.  It was near a Greyhound Bus station, so the potential for going to Canada is there.  It seems that he's abandoned his name and Social Security number, his birth certificate is still here.  


As you'll read later, Theo's siblings blame me for his disappearance and while they seem to know at least how to contact him, we've gotten no help.  Warren and Julie are maintaining their distance, I have no real idea what they are thinking, but they've cut off contact with me.  Tricia on the other hand, has been quite happy to let me know exactly all the things she's thinking.  Theo's mother is in the dark because they won't tell her what's happening.  She seems to be very unhappy with her children's behavior.  More on all that later.

Some other things that might help locate Theo.  He is generally very socially awkward.   It wasn't until this all happened that I found out all his previous "Real Life" relationships were started on line.  He is a gamer, we met on a writing Role Playing Site called "Furry Muck" (this was in 1997-ish before the Internet started that newfangled pictures thing and I was quite thrilled with my new 14.4 modem).  So, he may be... in fact I'm almost positive that he's getting most of his social outlets online.  He is a classic movie buff, insists on showing up very early to each movie.  When in a strange city previously, he joins clubs like the Beethoven Society or Book Clubs.  He is a compulsive software downloader, installer and fiddler and was very active on PerlMonks. 

He is obsessively regimented about schedule and behavior.  Our entire relationship he insisted he was a recovering alcoholic and generally refused social invite that were located at bars or featured drinking.  The last year he was around, he began buying me more alcohol than I generally drank and then started to have one beer every night at 7:30.  It seemed like a medicinal time.  He always had lunch at the same time and took the same shuffle/run everyday around the local park.  He obsessed on age and health, but will not take medications by choice.  He compulsively washes his hands adn He sleeps lightly but on a very fixed a regimented schedule.  With the exception of meals, shopping and shuffling he spent nearly every moment on the computer.